Why is it many Japanese girls who were never Lesbian before, are open to trying out a lesbian relationship? I decided to do an experiment by going into chats and pretending to be a lesbian. Met japanese girls most of the girls easily started accepting my lesbian advances even though at first they didn't.
But i was nice, kind, and made them think that having a relationship with a girl is the best thing and it's better than with a man. And they said things like "I've never had but it doesn't mean i don't like it"
Then i even voice chatted with them using a great female voice i can do. And most of the ones that i've done this with, have been really excited and happy.
I've even showed them pictures of an American hot girl who i claimed it was me and they say things like "wooww... sexxxyyyyy.. So beautiful!!!"
I don't know, but why is it Japanese girls who are not lesbian can become lesbian given the right circumstance? |
| what chat did u go lol well honestly is not that they were lesbians before maybe they had feelings and they never had the circumstances to express them |
How do you lesbian Americans feel and what do you think of Foreign Japanese or CHinese girls dressed sexy? Many Japanese or chinese or korean tourists or ESL students in america dress hot!!
miniskirts, boots, highheels, etc. What do you think?
And do you ever have the courage to ask the out? |
| hell yeah i would ask a japanese girl out! i love korean and japanese women :) i have two exes who are half korean :) yummy |
Why when The L Word cast went to Japan, tons of Japanese girls excited, are most Japanese women lesbian? I thought they would be disgusted or weirded out. But i was surprised tons like 1000's or something were really excited and like a super-star had come. And it wasn't just young women, some were like in their late 30's or 40's.
Are most Japanese women bisexual or what? |
| really? well i had the impression that they thought homosexuality was horribly gross! interesting! |
Is this japanese girl I like lesbian? I don't know. There's this one chick I like but I'm unsure if she's lesbian or not.
The first sign i saw was when I asked for her myspace. She was like "Oh here's my myspace... (Writes down) but my picture looks weird cause i look like a guy"
Next is when I saw her myspace. There's this thing called AX (for those of you who don't know) when Anime Fans come together and cosplay as the character they like. I saw her cosplays of L and a typical japanese schoolboy.
Here's an excerpt from her myspace:
"Sex: Boy born in the body of a girl who looks like a guy being a girl.
Status : I’m single, so we can go into a dark alley where I can stick my big, thick- JK, I’ve always been single…I wonder why?"
But I'm still doubting that. I've been in situation before. A girl CLAIMED she was a lesbian but actually really wasn't and had a crush on me. But that was a few years ago, now I'm a high school junior.
She's really cute and all... and i'm already getting to know her. |
It doesn't seem like she's a lesbian so much as she's transgendered. Basically, she's only a girl in body. In her mind, though, she's a boy. Or both. Or neither. It can get complicated. But I wouldn't call her a lesbian per say. She might be bi. Or might like girls and consider herself straight, because she's a man inside. Or she might like guys and be straight or even consider herself gay. It all depends on the person.
But yeah, transgendered people can get confusing. I, personally, think it's kinda hot, but there are others who can get intimidated or freaked out by the idea. I suggest talking to her about it, because there are honestly no real clear "symptoms". Some transgendered people are very good at remaining undercover and some non-transgendered people just like acting like the opposite gender.
Edit: Also, about AX, it's incredibly common for girls to "crossplay" or dress up as a male character at anime conventions. It honestly doesn't mean anything. However, if she classifies as an "otaku" (super obsessed anime fan), the odds are probably a little higher that she's transgender, bi, or lesbian. About 99% of all otaku I know are gay, bi or bi-curious, lesbian, or transgendered, and most of the rest are straight people who accept them. But it's honestly a little more complicated than that. I think you should just ask her. Well, as long as you're the accepting sort. If not, then drop it. |
Is this japanese girl i like lesbian? I don't know. There's this one chick I like but I'm unsure if she's lesbian or not.
The first sign i saw was when I asked for her myspace. She was like "Oh here's my myspace... (Writes down) but my picture looks weird cause i look like a guy"
Next is when I saw her myspace. There's this thing called AX (for those of you who don't know) when Anime Fans come together and cosplay as the character they like. I saw her cosplays of L and a typical japanese schoolboy.
Here's an excerpt from her myspace:
"Sex: Boy born in the body of a girl who looks like a guy being a girl.
Status : I’m single, so we can go into a dark alley where I can stick my big, thick- JK, I’ve always been single…I wonder why?"
But I'm still doubting that. I've been in situation before. A girl CLAIMED she was a lesbian but actually really wasn't and had a crush on me. But that was a few years ago, now I'm a high school junior.
She's really cute and all... and i'm already getting to know her. |
| I think this girl is lesbian or just like pretty boys. |
Most Japanese Women are lesbian but due to Society's expectations they just marry with men? Case in point.. i just dont see Japanese women happy being with men. They love their female friends, and being surrounded by women.
Anyways, that's what i feel from tons of BBS, forums, and stuff i've seen and read about Lesbian clubs in japan and stuff in Japanese were girls in forums hook up with girls. |
| Is there a question in there somewhere or are you just hoping someone will agree with you? |
Are Japanese women more likely to let themselves become lesbian? Many japanese women are shy compared to American women. I wonder if this hapens a lot and how likely it is to happen. If a butch lesbian ( or not butch) makes advances on a shy Japanese women, would that women give in after a while?
I say yes. I've seen japanese shows and i've seen and talked to Japanese girls, many of them are shy and giggle and can be convinced easily. In fact, i 've seen videos where foreigners go to japan( men) and pickup girls easily because the girls just giggle and give in so fast.
So is this just logical, for Japanese women to be easily swayed into lesbianism?
also since over there, they have no religion, and being lesbian is accepted much more in a DON"T ASK don't tell basis, then i would say that it is more likely for them to accept lesbian lfe. |
I guess it does make sense...
I mean if a girl is weak, and someone asks her out, they wouldn't want to hurt that person and maybe accept...
AND MORE if in their country being a lesbian isn't something bad...
But I guess if that a straight person is determined that he is disgusted by touching the same sex... Then again I dont see how they can change their opinion... |
Japanese girls... who like girls? Im new here, its my first time posting and Im kind of embarrased.
Im a lesbian, and Im living in Japan for my job. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on dating Japanese girls. From what I can see its really hard to meet them. The lesbian word is so taboo!!
I don't really like gay bars or clubs because I totally stand out as the only foreign girl. Does anyone have any advice? I would really like to experience being with a japanese girl .. |
| You could try the more casual places in and around Shinjuku 2-chome, etc. There are joints that have a mixed clientele both in terms of ethnicity and sexual orientation. The crowd you are looking for could be hanging out at a given Kirin City or whatever on a given night, rather than at "a lesbian bar". You just need to go on a bit of an urban safari. The fact is...establishments that cater to the closeted tend to be inherently unwelcoming to new faces. Therefore a place where anyone would feel welcome would be your best bet. |
Do Japanese girls like American guys? Assuming Im rich, speaks fluent Japanese, has a great personality, about 6 ft. tall, has a great body and a pretty decent face, would any Japanese girls like me. The reason Im asking is that in the last 20 years American women have started to either become lesbians more or like feminine, submissive men more and Im wondering if the same is true in Japan. |
HAHAHAHAHAHA 'in the last 20 years American women have started to become lesbians'
..anyway, that aside, japanese girls should like you...often it's the case that foreigners are viewed as pretty classy, though if you're in japan you'll have a higher chance if you try to fit in with their culture.
So yeah, as to the actual girls, like in America or anywhere else, they allll have their personal tastes. |
Do American Straight or Bi women ever curious about Hot Japanese female tourist/students? They come to the usa. And they look and act real different. Many times they're are really pretty and attractive and cute. I'm sure straight women even get some kind of sexual curiousity.
Have you ever like met them for cultural exchange and had a crusH?
did you tell them about it?
It would be nice to see more American-Japanese lesbian or curious couples around. I know that many so called Straight Japanese females are attracted to american girls. |
| Personally I am a bisexual woman who loves to keep her eye open for all the world has to offer. I met a few Japanese students in college, and was absolutely smitten with one of them. I never said anything though, she seemed so reserved and shy. The last thing I wanted to do was offend her. Ahh, and now years later I am wondering if I might run into one of those "so called straight Japanese females who are attracted to American girls". |